I’ve been blogging for three years now, and I’ve never bothered to write anything on my “About” page about myself. I never really thought it mattered. However, I notice that many visitors check this page, so I might as well write something.
Homeschooling has been the most rewarding challenge of my life. I blog mainly so that I can look back on these times – both good and bad – so that I can remember them years from now. I also blog because we have many relatives and loved ones living outside Ohio, and this is the best way to keep them a part of our lives. Finally, I blog to help share information and resources with other moms.
Homeschooling has been my greatest challenge, and I’ve had many. I graduated from a large, state university Magna Cum Laude with University Honors. I then earned a master’s degree in school psychology, and decided to pursue a Ph.D in that field. I applied to three of the top 5 programs in the nation, and was accepted in all three. However, I was appalled by what I saw in the public schools, and vowed I’d never work in one. Besides, my real interest was in research, and I “didn’t really like working with children.”
So, I dropped out of my Ph.D. program, and earned a second master’s degree in public policy from the University of Chicago instead. I received a generous scholarship from the U of C, and attended nearly for free. During my last year of my program, and for a time afterward, I conducted research in public policy issues. I was a Senior Research Analyst at the Chapin Hall Center for Children, an international policy and research institute affiliated with the University of Chicago. I loved it.
Now, I am “just” a mom. However, I think there’s nothing more rewarding and more challenging than spending time with your children, and caring about “how they turn out”. I sometimes feel insecure around mothers who have chosen a prestigious career path, but when they tell me they “could never homeschool”, I know that I’ve made a good choice.
I homeschool mainly so that my children know and love their faith, but also to give them the best education possible. When I was young, I attended a public grade school, and a Catholic high school. I have often thanked my parents for sacrificing their hard-earned money to give me a Catholic education. I know I would not still be Catholic today without such a solid Catholic foundation to brave the world. I have so much respect for any parent who makes sacrifices so that their children may be educated in the faith – either by homeschooling or by private religious schools. Homeschooling isn’t for all families, but a Christian education is.
I know that all my homeschooling successes are not my own doing. On the other hand, I take sole responsibility for my failures. I am amazed at how often my prayers have been answered, and I’m amazed at what God has done with me. I am the most unlikely person to homeschool. I do not have any of the personality traits – patience, creativity, flexibility, or “mushiness” – that befits a person for working with children. I have also had my share of health problems that have slowed me down. However, now I’m a homeschooling mom, a catechist, and soon a Little Flowers Club leader. It is amazing what God has done with me. Homeschooling has been the most challenging and most rewarding thing I’ve ever done.
You’re doing what is the most important work in the world! Keep it up!
Sadly, another mom who homeschooled was derailed by divorce. Her son is suing her via her husband! Read more at http://www.Marysadvocates.org Her name is Bai MacFarlane. We are a small group supporting one-another trying to stop the mayhem of divorce — especially among Catholics. I pray that you and your family are spared.
Though you may find it inappropriate, the Book sold at Bai’s site, The Gift of Self, is actually a primer on marriage par excellence than any by a living author! You would learn much of what lies beneath the surface of what you are living unquestioned and unchallenged. It may help to save your marriage!
In the Holy Family, Easter Blessings!
Comment by Greg Lynne — May 9, 2011 @ 6:37 pm